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The Best Way to Manage Change

It’s important to learn how to manage change in life.

You might be surprised to discover that I used to fear change.

I just didn’t know what to do when I was faced with change.

In fact, it was overwhelming and chaos often ensued.

 And then I bought this cute little change purse.

I tell ya, it completely changed how I manage change in my life. Now change is fun!

 Don’t fear change, embrace it. And have fun with it.

Sometimes dealing with change is just a matter of perspective.

And having the right purse.

Just a Thought

If it’s not fun then why do it?

Coffee AND Daisies!! Could life get ANY better than that!!?

I began drinking coffee at the tender age of 5. And you’re likely thinking, what the daisy? Hey, at least I waited until I could walk before hoisting my first cuppa joe. It’s not safe to try to crawl and carry a hot drink at the same time.

Anyhow……this means that I’ve been drinking coffee since 1968. I’ll leave it to you to do the math on my age….(if you pulled out an abacus to do the calculation, you’re even older than I am. If you don’t know what an abacus is and are currently conducting a Google search on your iPhone 4 you’re definitely younger than I am.)

I like my coffee. I really, really, really do.

And I like my daisies too. I really, really, really do.

So, imagine how excited I might get when you put the two together!!?

Pretty darned excited let me tell ya.

I’m hovering up here on Cloud Nine as I share with you this piece of news – the wonderful gals at My Stow-n-Tow in Ottawa are going to make a limited edition daisy Cuppa Cosy for my upcoming Following Daisies book launch parties in Ottawa and Nanaimo!(click on either city name for full event details)

Here’s what the Cuppa Cosy looks like. It’s a reversible, washable and entirely one-of-a-kind groovy sleeve for your cuppa joe!

But wait, there’s more! Check out the groovy daisy patterns that will appear on the Cosy!

Talk about a fun daisy vibe to add to your caffeine vibe!

And they’ll be available at the Following Daisies book launch parties. Hope to see you there!

 

 

 

 

A Few Reflections in the Changed Mirror of Life

As I sit down to write, it’s a sunny, warm and beautiful spring day on Vancouver Island where I am entirely grateful to live. It’s a very life than the one I was living three years ago.

Happy to be on Vancouver Island :-)

April 24th will mark the 3 year anniversary date of the rather spontaneous sale of my house and bed and breakfast in Ottawa, Ontario which led to a few other rather large life-changing events too. At the time that I sold my house I had no idea what I was going to do next in life. In the weeks that followed I figured it out and sold off most of my worldly possessions, left behind the comfy life that I knew and hit the road in my newly-purchased RV, Miss Daisy. It’s a “mid-life adventure” that I share with you in my newly-released book, Following Daisies.

We don’t always know where life is going to lead, do we? Sometimes we change the course of our own lives and sometimes life does the changing for us. However change enters our lives, it can often be daunting to look ahead and wonder where the change is going to take us.

I remember having that feeling nearly 3 years ago when the “Sold” sign was placed on my front lawn and wondering what the heck I’d done, having sold my house without a clear idea as to what I was going to do next! I knew that I hadn’t been happy in the life that I’d been living and that things needed to change. I just didn’t know how and that was a bit scary. Thankfully, slowly, the universe began to show me the way.

Gazing into Nanaimo harbour, on Vancouver Island

What’s interesting about those moments, when we’ve stood on the precipice of change, facing the uncertainty, excitement and perhaps fear of what lay ahead, is this – when we reflect upon those very same moments at some future point in time, we often see them as some of our greatest gifts. We often look back in gratitude, thankful for the change that happened.

As I look back upon the change (s) that took place in my life, changes that led to a new and much happier life on beautiful Vancouver Island, I shake my head, smile and wonder “What the heck was I so afraid of?” and “Why didn’t I change sooner?”

But whatever. I’m just glad that I did. :-)

 

 

 

 

 

Oprah’s Top Ten Life Lessons

Like tens of thousands or perhaps millions of people around the world, yesterday afternoon I cleared my schedule to watch Oprah broadcast her biggest Lifeclass event ever from Toronto, Ontario. I LOVE Oprah and truly respect her for everything she’s become and achieved in her lifetime.

As I watched yesterday’s show with the themes of forgiveness and gratitude, it is clear that Oprah has a wealth of insight, experience and life lessons to share with the world and a passionate fan base here in Canada! (hint: Hey Oprah, how about coming to Vancouver next time? *grin*)  But what strikes me even more, in addition to the lessons she teaches in her Lifeclass series, is what we can learn from the example of her own life (no pun intended on the “own” thing although it works quite well, doesn’t it!?).

Pay attention to Oprah’s own life; it’s actually the biggest lesson of all. And if we were all to follow in her footsteps, wow, what groovy lives we’d all be living and what an awesome world it would be.  :-)

Here are Oprah’s Top 10 Life Lessons:

 

1. She began her life very simply, as many of us do. She didn’t come from privilege nor did she have a rosy upbringing. She faced challenges and adversity like the rest of us and learned to overcome them, with grace and positivity. If a poor, black girl from small-town Mississippi can find a way to turn her life into something powerfully magical, hey, we can do it too!

2. She’s walked the walk, asked the questions, felt the pain, met with failure, enjoyed the successes, shed the tears, did the healing, learned the lessons, she even ran a marathon and more……she kept moving forward, always knowing that there was more for her in life. And there always was.

3. She follows her path and is true to her calling and purpose in life, which is to help others live their best life.

4. She is authentic and walks her own talk, always striving to live her best life too. And she knows that she ain’t perfect either.

5. She remains true to her heart, her values and what matters most. And she lives her life from a place of passion and joy.

6. She believes in something bigger than herself. God. The Universe. A Higher Power. Whatever. She’s in tune with her own spirit and a greater Spirit power.

7. She practices gratitude. Daily.

8. Despite her success, she continues to seek personal and spiritual growth and to ask powerful questions. She does not stop seeking and growing.

9. She lives a life of service. She recognizes that a fulfilled and meaningful life is a life that helps improve the lives of others.

10.  She lives a life that’s fun, inspired and feels good.

Oprah, those are big footsteps to follow and we’ll do our best. Thank you for leading the way. :-)

 

What Happy Looks Like

There’s nothing like a dog to teach us many things, including how to have fun and what happy looks like.

This is my dog Daisy ‘Mo, being full-tilt happy.

Photo courtesy of Kimberly Andrews of Dogs on the Run

What happy looks like

Wisdom from a Seagull

Take it from a seagull, break the rules once in a while.

Joy

Of course, there would have to be daisies :-)

Following Daisies – Chapter Sixteen: Meeting the Spunky Women of Wawa

This is the final installment of a 17 part blog series launching Following Daisies – A True Story about One Woman’s Adventures Finding Happiness, Fulfilling Dreams and Becoming Herself.  This is the last chapter of the sixty-four chapters  in the book that will be posted online. If you’ve enjoyed reading so far, you can continue by ordering your copy of Following Daisies now simply by clicking on the link on the right-hand side of this page.

If you’re looking to pursue some of your own life dreams, longing to learn how to follow your heart or just wanting a funspirational, adventure-filled read, then this book is for you.

If you are just joining us, you can catch up on reading by beginning at the Introduction and continue reading the next chapters from there.

 Now, let’s continue Following Daisies!

© Copyright by Heather Pardon, 2012. All rights reserved

If I ever have a town of my own, I’m going to erect a giant wild daisy at the city limits to welcome visitors as they arrive. Canada has no shortage of towns that host Big Monuments of all sorts in an attempt to leave their imprint on the world. From Big Nickels to Flying Saucers to Giant Moose, Canada offers it all for the tourist in search of Big Things.

Wawa, Ontario offers visitors the Big Goose, a giant goose monument that welcomes visitors on their way into town. Many folks had suggested that I make the requisite two-minute stop at the Goose, grab a coffee at the local Tim Horton’s and keep driving. Undaunted, I didn’t feel that I’d cook my goose with a longer stay in Wawa, so I daringly booked myself in for two nights at the nearby campsite. Read more